Top20Sites

I was zooming around the internet yesterday and happened upon an interesting new site. Top20Sites.com Basically it's a listing of different catagories of sites, and then the top sites for that catagory. It's great when looking for new sites to check out about a particular topic.

Secrets

Who doesn't have secrets these days. Whether they be little white lies, or something that could be life changing.  

How does one go about handling a secret? Some people can't keep them at all. Some die without ever revealing them. Though most will agree that having to hide anything will cause problems, mostly within ones own head. It would be nice if there was a place. One that was completely anonymous. Where people could share their secrets without having to worry about anyone who mattered finding out. I'm sure people have so much to share. So much they actually WANT to share but feel they can't. Maybe someones come up with this idea before. maybe they haven't. Maybe i'm the one who should make that place. Sounds interesting doesn't it? I know i have a lot I would love to share, but probably never will. Things i've heard, things i've seen, things i've done. All my secrets shared by me and myself. 

Do you have a secret?

update: it looks like there are a few sites like this. If anyones interested:

http://postsecret.blogspot.com/

http://www.secretchest.com/

Psycho ex girlfriends

Every guy, and perhaps a lot of women, have had at least one in their lifetime. 

It never starts out so horrible. It usually starts with a loving relationship, which turns pretty bad and lasts way too long. Eventually you find your way out, but it's still not over. The ex gets clingy, says that they want you back, that things will be different. But you know they won't be. Eventually they start trying to force themselves back into your life. They start calling a lot. Texting a lot. Sending emails a lot. You get the picture right? So what do you do? Do you answer them? No, can't do that, it just ends up in arguments right? So do you ignore them? Well that seems the most sensible option.

So what happens when the psycho ex gets ignored? They get angry. And an angry psycho ex is the worst kind. They make up lies to get attention. They try to act like every horrible thing that ever happened to them was your fault.  They tell everyone they can, anything they can come up with to get attention and make you look like the bad guy. So what do you do? How are you supposed to handle it? Some people get violent, some people get lawyers. But it never solves the problem 100%. It's a problem men (and women) have faced for ages. We can put a man on the moon, climb the tallest mountains, tame the wildest of animals, but we still can't deal with the psycho ex girlfriend.

An introduction

If your reading this. Then you probably know who i am. You probably know the people i deal with and some of the issues i have. Or maybe you don't. Maybe your curious to understand me a little better. I thought that perhaps this would be a good way to do it. Get some stuff out there. Carve out my own little peice of the net.